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Ordering & Timescales

Placing an Order on a Headstone

Our experienced advisors can guide you through every step of the process, from choosing a memorial, to gaining permission from the cemetery or crematorium and deciding on an inscription.

At a Glance

Order Process at a glance

How to order a headstone

Step 1

Speak with one of our advisors about your chosen design and inscription text. If you are unsure then we can help you through the decision process either over the phone, by email or by arranging a home visit. Some cemeteries and churchyards have restrictions on the size and materials they will allow so we will be able to check this before going any further.

Step 2

When you are completely happy with your choice of memorial and inscription, we will confirm the price and ask for a 20% deposit*. This is payable by debit or credit card, bank transfer or personal cheque if preferred.

Step 3

Once we have received an approved permit from the cemetery/crematorium, we will ask you for a further payment towards your memorial plus the permit fee. Once these have been paid, we can begin the process of manufacturing, lettering and fixing of your memorial stone. If you have chosen to order a photo plaque then we will ask you to send a good quality photo to us by email or post. See our FAQ section for more detailed information about this, such as how to get a cemetery permit.

Note: obtaining a permit takes on average 2-3 weeks from your deposit payment but can take longer depending on the cemetery. Unfortunately we have little control over this but will chase them on your behalf.

Payment Terms

First Instalment

20% Deposit* when you place an order (as mentioned above).

Second Instalment

75% of balance plus burial ground fee. The burial ground fee is only payable once we receive an approved permit from the cemetery or church authority.

Final Payment

The remaining balance is payable on completion. In other words you only pay this portion once your memorial has been fixed in the cemetery.

*exceptions apply


Timescales

When can a memorial be erected on a grave?

A headstone can usually be erected on a grave six months after the last interment has taken place, as the ground requires time to settle. If cremated remains are interred in a grave, a headstone may be fixed immediately, as the ground requires no settling period.

How long does it take to make a headstone?

We estimate that orders for our standard designs will take approximately 4-5 months to manufacture & deliver.

This estimate begins from the date we have received both the cemetery or church permit and your second instalment rather than from the date you place your order. The process of obtaining a permit is carried out by us on your behalf and is generally straightforward. If you are having a more unusual style or size of memorial it can take longer to clarify the details with the cemetery and obtain permission which will affect the final delivery/fixing date.

We always endeavour to complete your order as quickly as possible but there are some factors over which have no control, such as shipping and council response times. This means that some orders will take less than 4 or 5 months but others may take more. We will always keep you informed about the progress of your order.

If your order is for a non-standard memorial, it is very likely that the manufacturing & delivery time will be greater than 4-6 months.

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Frequently Asked Questions

How long will it take?

We currently estimate that orders for our standard designs will take approximately 4-5 months to manufacture & deliver.

This estimate begins from the date we have received both the cemetery or church permit and your second instalment rather than from the date you place your order. The process of obtaining a permit is carried out by us on your behalf and is generally straightforward. If you are having a more unusual style or size of memorial it can take longer to clarify the details with the cemetery and obtain permission which will affect the final delivery/fixing date.

We always endeavour to complete your order as quickly as possible but there are some factors over which have have no control, such as shipping and council response times. This means that some orders will take less than 4 or 5 months but others may take more. We will always keep you informed about the progress of your order.

If your order is for a non-standard memorial, it is very likely that the manufacturing & delivery time will be 4-6 months.

How much is the cemetery fee?

Cemetery or Crematoria fees are not a standard price but if you tell us the grave location details we will be able to find out for you. Alternatively the cemetery would be able to give you the information directly if you prefer to call them yourself.

Once you have placed an order, the process of obtaining a permit is carried out by us on your behalf and is generally straightforward.

Can I buy my memorial online?

Memorials of Distinction believe that purchasing a memorial headstone is such an important decision that it is not suited to an on-line ‘add to my basket’ type of purchase. There are also many variables in the process which will affect your order, for example what is allowed by your particular cemetery and whether your inscription will fit on the memorial you have chosen.

It is possible to order over the phone or by email using the details on our Contact Page where our staff will be able to help and advise you.

We also offer a home visit service which is completely free of charge and obligation. One of our knowledgeable staff will visit you in the comfort and privacy of your home to help you to choose a design, decide on an appropriate wording and answer any other questions you may have.

Any administration or correspondence with local authorities, cemeteries or church authorities is dealt with by Memorials of Distinction on your behalf – you will not have to worry about this aspect of the process.

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POPULAR PRODUCTS

Round Top Headstone

Round Top Headstone £986

Value Ogee Headstone

Value Ogee Headstone £901

Triple Heart Headstone

Triple Heart Headstone £2532

Gilded Book Headstone

Gilded Book Headstone £1970

Double Heart Headstone

Double Heart Headstone £1525

Flat Tablet Small Memorial

Flat Tablet Small Memorial £504

Floral Carved Headstone

Floral Carved Headstone £1340

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TESTIMONIALS

I have seen the memorial and it is an excellent quality piece of work‎. It is exactly what we wanted and I would like to thank everyone for the kind and considerate way they have dealt with me throughout this process.

Rachael W. Sent by email: 26/12/2017

Many thanks for completing our order so swiftly. I visited the cemetery yesterday and I was so pleased. It is a very special memorial to my parents and looked exactly as I wanted. Thanks again.

Jeanette S. Sent by post: 01/07/2019

Just wanted to thank you so much for the great work on the memorial.  I am so pleased with it and very happy that I could mark their lives in this special way. Thank you very much

Corinne N. Sent by email: 01/07/2024

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